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Shadow Work Journaling

To make your own journal, consider keeping track of:   

  • Exaggerated responses to people or things

  • Emotional outbursts that are too strong for the situation

  • Any time you feel uncomfortable or upset at strangers or people you barely know

  • Addictive behaviors

  • Unexplained feelings, such as depression, anxiety, sadness, or anger

  • Lingering moods that don’t match how you want to feel

  • Things you do or say that hurt other people

  • Repetitive arguments or conflicts

Recommended:

  • Observe and write down your inner dialogue during an emotion or action. 

  • Jot down the feelings that go with your thoughts.

  • Note any bodily sensations. 

Benefits of shadow work may include: 

  • Fewer feelings of blame and shame

  • Learning why you have big emotional reactions

  • Revealing and healing trauma

  • Shedding light on your strengths and weaknesses 

  • Learning healthy coping skills and how to set boundaries

  • Improving your personal or professional relationships 

  • Tapping into creativity 

  • Stopping negative self-talk

  • Less hurt to yourself or other people 

  • Boost your well-being

  • Improve your people skills

  • Lessen how often you go to the doctor

Researchers have found that exploring how your past connects with your present may help

with mental health conditions such as: 

  • Depression and anxiety

  • Emotional issues that lead to physical symptoms 

  • Eating disorders

  • Complicated grief

  • Personality disorders

  • Substance use disorders

  • Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD)

Prompts

Explore Your Personal Shadow

  • What people or situations cause me to have strong positive or negative reactions?

  • When did I start to feel this way? 

  • What behaviors do I keep repeating, even though I don’t want to?

  • Is there a part of myself I’m ashamed to embrace or show others?

  • What things in my life (job, partner, friends, personality) make me feel uneasy? Why?

Strong Reactions to Someone

  • What is it about that person (or social media post) that really bothers me?

  • Are they doing or saying something that I wish I could do?

  • Is it possible that I’m jealous? If so, of what?

Romantic Relationship(s)

  • Am I afraid to reveal certain parts of myself? If so, what are those traits?

  • Am I embarrassed or ashamed of something in my past? If so, what?

  • Do I feel safe to share my shadow with my partner?

  • Is there something around sex, money, or power that I struggle with?

Other

  • Is there a specific conflict I have repeatedly?

  • Is there trauma from my childhood that I need to reveal and heal from?

  • What situations make me feel anxious?

  • Do I ever have a strong emotional reaction I can’t explain?

  • Do I ever feel scared, ashamed, or lonely but don’t know why? 

Childhood

  • What traits of mine did I learn were “good” or “bad”?

  • What is allowed or forbidden in my family, culture, or religion?

  • Did I hide certain parts of myself growing up?

  • Did I have creative interests as a child that I forgot about?

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